Are you recovering from a broken relationship? If so, dont't rush into another one. Take your time. Unhealthy people make unhealthy choices.
Some wounds take longer to heal than others, but you can count on this: He healtheth the broken in heart. All God ask is that you give Him a chance. Begin by taking time to search Gods word and find out how he feels about you. Gods opinion is the only reliable basis upon which tho base your self-worth.
If a perfect God can love you with full knowledge of your struggles and imperfections, then the messge is lighten up on yourself. You can love and beloved again, but only with the same wholeness with which you love yourself. Next time make sure your choices are healthy ones, not predicated on need or the fear of being alone.
Remember you train others to treat you by how you treat yourself. Actually, as you become healthier you will start seeing how unhealthy some of your choices have been. If some people walk away, so be it. sometimes you have to give up less in order to have more.
God's got wonderful relationships in store for you, but He's waiting untiel your values and perceptions line up with His. So take it step by step, one day at at time. And don't forget to rejoice, your best days are ahead.
Read PSALM 147:3
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